Introduction

My Daily Life

Dedicated to God who pulls me through each day.

Dear Reader: 

I write about my experiences to provide insight about the significance of abuse in relationships, poverty, promiscuity, the sex industry, mental health and the mental health system. I want to emphasize the purpose of this personal story is not to bash anyone or to exact revenge. It is to inform people of harsh experiences and how to take action. Additionally, I include some essays about God. I feel compelled to let you know that if you can muster the courage to believe in God, I believe that He may be the answer to many if not all of life’s struggles. Thank you for reading.

Amelia N. Reiling



Order of Contents:

We Are Wired for Relationships, The Trigger, My Family, Bullying, Sexual Harassment, Cycles of Abuse, Setting Boundaries v. Cutting Ties, Delivering the Concept of Forgiveness, Abuse, My Mental Health, Continued Trauma, Trauma Caused My Poor Mental Health, General Impressions of Certain Psychiatrists I’ve Come Across, Dealing with Pain, Homelessness, Pity and Poverty, The Perfect Relationship, Spiritual Abuse, Forgiveness and Accountability, My Realizations Dealing with Pain, Mental Health, and Abuse with God’s Help, Conflict Management, Tips and Approaches to Conflict Management, Basic Policy Recommendations in Developing Emotional Intelligence via the Educational System.






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